Steady in Joy and Sorrow
Pleasure and pain, gain and loss, come and go like seasons — the wise meet both with an even mind.
ਹਰਖੁ ਸੋਗੁ ਜਾ ਕੈ ਨਹੀ; ਬੈਰੀ ਮੀਤ ਸਮਾਨਿ ॥
harakh sog jaa kai nahee; bairee meet samaan |
Punjabi
ਜੋ ਖੁਸ਼ੀ ਅਤੇ ਗਮੀ ਨੂੰ ਮਹਿਸੂਸ ਨਹੀਂ ਕਰਦਾ ਅਤੇ ਜਿਸ ਲਈ ਦੁਸ਼ਮਨ ਅਤੇ ਮਿੱਤਰ ਇੱਕ ਤੁੱਲ ਹਨ।
English
One who is not affected by pleasure or pain, who looks upon friend and enemy alike
Common thread
Don't be tossed by the waves; the one anchored in the Self greets joy and grief with the same calm.
Echo
The Mundaka's two birds — one tasting the fruit, one watching serenely — the Gita's “equanimity is yoga,” and the Guru's “one unmoved by pleasure and pain, who sees friend and foe alike.”
📖 A story to understand
Made to sit upon a burning iron plate as scorching sand was poured over him, Guru Arjan uttered no cry of complaint. “Tera kiya meetha laage” — sweet is Your will to me — was all he breathed. Agony and peace he met with the same steady, God-filled calm.
Traditional sakhi / story (simplified retelling)